Meet Bill – DivX Version (Normal Quality), iPod/iPhone Version
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IMDB rating: 6.80 Plot: A guy fed up with his job and married to a cheating wife reluctantly mentors a rebellious teen. |
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Actors: Eckhart Aaron,Lerman Logan,Osborne Holmes,Louiso Todd,Olyphant Timothy,Diamond Reed,Sudeikis Jason,Zou Andy,O’Farrell Conor,Lordan John,Edlund Rick,Hawksley Craig,Thomas Matt,O’Neal Granvile,Bowdorn Michael,Comedy,Drama,
Why is he mad at me? Was I right or wrong?
Ok I have a problem. My fiance’s son was sick and his son’s mom didn’t have any money to get him any medicine. He asked me if I had the money to buy him some medicine and I did have cash on me to do so. I gave him the money for the medicine with no hestation. I never had a problem doing anything for his son. He got the best birthday and Christmas gifts from me and I treat him like he is one of my kids. The mom called back and told him to bring her some money for gas because she was going to take him to the doctor in the morning. I refused to give her gas money because since the day we met, she has disrespected me and still disrespects me when she gets the chance to. She tells the little boy to call me *itches and things like that and she tells him not to respect me. He is 4. I will do anything for the both of them but I don’t work everyday to put gas in her car. Was I wrong–please tell the truth. BTW—We take care of this child 100 percent financially and keep him on the weekends. She doesn’t pay rent or bills—she lives with her grandmother. She is on welfare and works everyday. Gas in her car shouldn’t be my problem, and if she didn’t spend every dime of her money on hair, nails, shoes, and clothes, for herself, she would have gas in her car.
Don’t get me wrong, he is not a bum. He was injured at work more than 6 months ago. When he went back to work, the company laid him off and unemployment is not even half of what he was making but he still has most of the same bills as before. We have separate apartments until the wedding and I took a second job to help with his bills. He has an attorney but until something comes through, it is tough right now. Just didn’t want you to get the wrong idea!
u were right for what u did
andrea | Nov 18, 2009
You are right.
Ellie | Nov 18, 2009
Nah, you’re doing the right thing.
Joshua | Nov 18, 2009
your so called fiance had a lot of nerve even considering asking u for gas money for her….stick to your guns sweetie…and if the fiance can’t handle it let him walk.
Big B | Nov 18, 2009
You’re right.
To be completely blunt, his child is not your responsibility at all.
You buying his medicine just shows that you are a kind person, doing the right thing for a child who isn’t even yours. Its not up to you to put gas in the mother car…….you did your bit, its up to the childs parents to take control.
Darcy | Nov 18, 2009
its not your problem she cannot put gas in her car.
Cameron P | Nov 18, 2009
maybe you guys should try to get custody of the kid he is the victim here
cavie | Nov 18, 2009
I would not have done it either. For the sake of peace, I probably would have made an excuse rather than tell her what I really thought. I think establishing appropriate boundaries in your relationship with this woman is important. Hopefully, she will become less threatened and stopped being so ridiculous – getting her 4 yr old child involved with her feelings about you. That’s so harmful to the child. You must ignore it and rise above…. But I agree with your choice here. Set boundaries and keep them.. that’s healthier than playing her games.
PS. I just re-read it and realized that your fiance asked for the money…. I would think long and hard about marrying a man that is unable provide medical care and transportation for his sick child. That is bizarre to me.
Artchick | Nov 18, 2009
You did the right thing. If she makes all this money and is on welfare than she should have money to put gas in her car. Dont give that bitch any of your hard working money. If she needs to take him to the hospital ask her grandmother for money or tell her you will take him or his father will. She is just playing the child support like the lottery! I hate people like that.
miss women | Nov 18, 2009
If your telling the truth about this situation which i I believe you are….then No you did nothing wrong. Its not your problem she had no gas. And you shouldn’t be asked to pay for it either. This is coming from a nice guy like me but you have to draw the line somewhere. Shes a bitch, that’s where you put your foot down, she wants to hate for no reason then …. she can walk. end of story.
Daniel | Nov 18, 2009
you are right !
if she cannot afford gas she should sell the car !
aunt_webby | Nov 18, 2009
you were right, don’t give her any money
George | Nov 18, 2009
You were right, but I would have offered to take him to the dr. instead. If she said no, then you did your part. Also, if your fiance cannot afford to pay for medicine or gas money, are you sure you want to marry him? You should get out while you still can.
Michelle E | Nov 18, 2009
NO YOU DID THE RIGHT THING I BELIEVE, DONT GIVE HER A DIME , BUT DONT DISRESPECT HER IN FRONT OF THE KID, WHEN HE GETS OLD ENOUGH TO SEE AND UNDERSTAND THINGS, SHE WILL ALSO. breathe in / breathe out , now call her and tell her to get f–kd
jon n | Nov 18, 2009
That was your fiances son that was sick and needed to go to the doctor. Yes he is right to be mad at you. You did not deny her gas to go visit her hair stylist. The right thing to do would have been figure out how far it was to the doctors and only give her enough to cover the trip or offer to come and pick the child up and take him to the doctor yourself. That said you have a long road ahead of you so you are going to have to figure out how to handle the situation the best you can as your boyfriend and soon to be husband has baggage, and I’m not talking about his son, but his sons mother.
saintrose | Nov 18, 2009
ya you are right! the nerve of her!
KissThis,Yahoo! | Nov 18, 2009
I have 2 step-daughters who’s mother is an absolute gold-digging, self-absorbed c*nt. I would pay for medicine for both of those girls until the cows come home, but I’d never give my hubby gas money to give her, that’s her problem. You’re right, the boy isn’t even your responsibility to begin with, and you care enough to pay for his medicine. If anything, I’d be pissed at your man for not telling the mom that it was your money…maybe then she wouldn’t disrespect you so. My hubby’s ex eventually learned that I was caring for her kids properly when they were at our house, but she still hasn’t stopped brainwashing them regarding me. She’s very materialistic also, and she cries needy all the time, she has a 56,000/yr job and my hubby and I are full time college students with NO income, and all she wants is money. My step-daughters are 17 and 14 now, and the older one just moved in with us last week, because she’s finally learning what kind of person her mom really is. The mom you’re dealing with sounds like the same person almost! If you ever have any other questions, IM me, I’ve been dealing with the kniving ex and mom of the step-children for 8 years now, I’ve seen and heard almost everything! You should have just offered to drive your man and the boy to the doctors, then she wouldn’t need gas money.
Mariah | Nov 18, 2009
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